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The biggest mistake in sleep training

3/18/2020

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I hear so many tired parents who are desperate for sleep tell me they've tried "everything" to get their baby or toddler to sleep. They rattle off the list of things they've tried. They say to me "I let him cry at bedtime to get to sleep... now what do I do when he wakes up at night?" or say "I let her cry for 15 minutes, then I went in to get her because it wasn't working." I hear parents say they have given up on sleep training after a few nights, because while it did seem to improve their child's sleep at first, it then got worse again, so they gave up or gave in. The reason it's not working for every one of those parents? There's one reason, and it's by far the biggest mistake I see in sleep training:

 . . .  Inconsistency. Trying too many techniques, or giving up after only a few wake-ups or a few nights, or responding differently to every wake-up - that will only make sleep training harder for your child and confuse your child. 

If you're planning to do sleep training, don't just wing it. Come up with a plan. Study all of the sleep training methods and choose one you're confident with and can be committed to, and then stick with it. For every bedtime, every night waking, every early morning wakeup, and every nap.

If you start the night with a sleep training method, and then give in, all the progress and learning your child did was wasted, and it will likely lead to even worse sleep. This sounds harsh, but if you're not going to be consistent, don't start sleep training, because it will only confuse your child. 

Before you start sleep training, here are five things to do:
  1. Look at your schedule. Make sure you're not traveling or planning a lot of outings for two weeks during sleep training. Plan to be committed to bedtime and the naps. 
  2. Set a daytime schedule for your child. Choose a daily wake time, set nap times, and a set bedtime, and stick with it as close to the schedule as possible. 
  3. Evaluate your baby's sleep environment and make sure it's ideal for inducing sleep.
  4. Don't allow your child to become overtired. Start sleep training at nighttime, after a day of good naps. 
  5. Choose a sleep training method and stick with it, and be consistent for two weeks. 

If you're still not sure what to do, or want a baby/toddler sleep expert to walk you through the process with an easy step-by-step plan, reach out to me! I would love to help you walk through this process, and I offer free 15 minute phone consultations. I write personalized sleep plans for clients, based on your baby's needs and challenges, your sleep goals, and your personalities, and tell you exactly what to do. 
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    Lynne Howard

    Pediatric Sleep Consultant 

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Lynne did an amazing job formulating a plan for my 2 year old and assisting me through the entire process. My son had slept in the bed with me for two years and was never on a schedule. After 2 weeks with Lynne, he has not only smoothly transitioned to his crib in his own room, but he is on a consistent schedule! She is an expert on these subjects, and I highly recommend her to any parent. Lynne was informative, caring, and encouraging through the whole process. With the guidance of Lynne, my son sleeps 11-12 hours at night, and I have "me time." 
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